Benson’s Christmas Gift
26 Dec 2010 17 Comments
So if you have ever asked Benson what he has wanted for any Christmas or birthday over the last few years you know that his response has been: a dog, a real dog. He has asked and begged for a dog for as long as I can remember and I just haven’t felt like it’s been something that we can take on in our lives. Until I heard about the perfect dog looking for a new home. He is an older dog…a big black soft fluffy mellow easy going loving dog. My plan was to get him under the tree for Christmas morning so Benson could have the best Christmas ever. Then we ended up in the hospital. I had been trying to figure out how I was going to make it still happen for Benson and then I came up with the perfect plan. This is how it all went down:
Friday afternoon I left the hospital and came to my house where Benson was with Uncle Pete. I walked in the door and told Benson…”You are never going to believe what happened to me! You know where that Christmas tree is at the hospital? Well, I was walking down to get some coffee and there was one of Santa’s helpers by the tree and I heard him say, “Are you Benson’s mom?” and I said yes but I was kinda freaked out and he said, “Well, Santa really wants Benson to get his Christmas present a year early but you have to go to this address to go get it” and he handed me a piece of paper. So I found someone to sit with Luke and came here to get you so we can go to this address.” Benson was jumping out of his skin with shock and excitement. I had him get his shoes on and hurry out to the car to go to the address. The drive there was pretty fun…Benson was trying to figure the whole thing out and wondered if we were driving all the way to the north pole. He kept saying that it was the coolest and kind of freakiest thing that had ever happened to him. We pulled up to the address and this girl came out and asked Benson if his name was Benson. Benson said yes and she said she had a letter for him. So he opened it and started reading it outloud:
MERRY CHRISTMAS 2010
Dear Benson,
You have been a very good boy this year. I know you are having a tough time right now, with your brother being in the hospital, and your mommy being gone some, too. I thought you could use an early Christmas present. You deserve it! Please take good care of Bear, your new buddy. He is a very special dog. (at this point Benson looked up at me in shock and could barely finish reading the letter) I chose you to have Bear, because I know you can take great care of him. There are some instructions for you and your mommy to help you know what to do. I know you will be Bear’s best buddy. That is why I wanted YOU to have him.
Merry Christmas, Benson,
Love,
Santa Claus
And out of their garage comes a big fluffy black dog with a bow on him. Pretty magical. Benson and I had such a great moment and neither of us could stop grinning. The ride back home was pretty fun and he’s been in heaven since and loves saying that he has a dog. It sure made leaving him again to come back to the hospital a little easier. He has decided that Santa must have saved him from the snow and wanted Benson to take care of him. It felt so good to have a little joy on Christmas Eve day and Benson loves hearing me tell the story again and again.
Dec 26, 2010 @ 13:17:03
Oh Lydia! I have tears in my eyes as I am reading this! That is the most beautiful and touching Christmas story!! I know it has been hard for you to be at the hospital for Christmas ans away from Benson. I think that sweet dog is meant to come into your lives and he will look out for Benson and love him. What a gift for you, to see his pure joy and excitement.
Merry Christmas my dear friend! I wish you and your sweet boys joy, health and happiness…there is no one who desreves it more!
Dec 26, 2010 @ 14:03:23
That’s amazing.
Thinking of you all.
Dec 26, 2010 @ 14:28:22
Oh Good Grief, I cry so easily.
I will work next week, but only until 3:00. If you would like some time away, I would love some time with Lukas.
Dec 26, 2010 @ 15:37:32
*tears, and more tears* Love you all.
Dec 26, 2010 @ 16:48:23
Best Christmas story ever!
Dec 26, 2010 @ 16:57:08
Oh, Lyd – You are the best Mom ever. I can be in Seattle Tuesday evening and most of Wednesday. What is the most helpful thing I can do during that time for you and the boys? You name it, if I can, I will do it. Love, love, love to you.
Dec 26, 2010 @ 17:46:11
This is sooo awesome, Lydia! How very special for Benson. I read it to Aalana who is Benson’s age…she thought it was pretty cool for him too! Hope you guys get home soon!
Dec 26, 2010 @ 19:03:04
I love you all. You are an incredible mother, Lydia! My prayers are with you, Lukas, Benson and Bear! You tell Benson I like his dog’s name! If I could drive, I would be there in a second! Love to you all, Caron
Dec 26, 2010 @ 19:03:48
Christmas is a magical time!!!!
Dec 27, 2010 @ 00:07:08
Awesome!
Dec 27, 2010 @ 09:22:51
Lydia, your Mom may remember this . . . I was about 5(?) and your mom was about 6 . . . my dad (your grandpa), on Christmas morning, asked me if I wanted to ride with him to say “Merry Christmas” to Doctor Walt (a family friend and veterinarian). I was too young to realize that he wouldn’t be working on Christmas Day. I always loved to go to the vet clinic. Dad sat me down on the big leather couch in the waiting room. The next thing I knew, a 4-month-old black lab puppy came bounding out the doors and jumped onto my lap. She was about 4 months old . . . all wiggles and big paws and slurpy kisses!! That was my best Christmas ever!! I know Benson will remember this Christmas with special warm feelings, too. I’d love to see a photo of Bear, and I hope to meet him someday. Merry Christmas!!
Dec 27, 2010 @ 09:54:52
What an incredible story, Lydia! Loved it!! What a special Mom you are to think of doing that and in that way!!
Dec 27, 2010 @ 10:51:02
God bless you and Santa’s helpers for such creative gift-giving. What a joy for both Benson and Bear! Much love and prayers to you and your sweet little family.
Dec 27, 2010 @ 17:50:27
What an amazing Christmas Story. Benson will have very fond memories……. Prayers for all of you.
Looking forward to seeing Benson at school to ask him what he got for christmas!! Love Heidi
Dec 29, 2010 @ 11:17:07
that is the best gift ever, lydia. i can’t even imagine being a kid and getting something like that. truly the best christmas he will ever have. good job, mom!!
Dec 30, 2010 @ 18:35:43
What an awesome story! You are sooooo wonderful! Love it love it love it! Miss you and think of you often. Hope to visit CS soon.
Jan 08, 2011 @ 12:53:45
Tears, tears, tears and more tears, what a wonderful Christmas story Benson will remember and share for years to come. I also wanted to let you know that if you need a dog sitter in a pinch, I can be there to take care of your “Bear”. I can bring him to my home or at your home with or without Benson anytime you need to go in a hurry. Love to you all!